LABOUR OF THE WISE
The
first year of their marriage was rosy. They were never short
of money because Ben was
comfortable in his workplace. Although Mary was not working,
his income was more than enough to
sustain both of them. Then children started arriving. Sam
was born in the second year of the marriage, followed in quick succession by
two girls. And suddenly, Ben
‘s salary could no longer meet
the catalogue of financial
obligation such as providing the family
daily needs, buying baby things,
paying all sorts of utility bills
and shelling out some good cash for
unplanned expenses like
paying hospital bills of a sick
member of the family and fixing his car.
It became difficult for the couple to make ends meets.
With
sadness , Mary noticed that Ben ‘s clothes and hers were faded, and
he was very worried about their predicament. Twice, she saw him brooding with his head bowed sitting alone in the balcony, and every
night when he returned from work, he was always surfing the internet in search
of a higher/paying job than the present one.
She also noticed that she’d been snapping children unnecessarily herself. She
knew these occurrences were signs of unhealthy family relationship, which could
degenerate into a serious problem like the one next door, were having. They
were always bickering over money,
waking up neighbours every time
with angry outbursts and
deafening sound of objects
smashed on the wall. The
recollection of that daily quarrel next door jolted her into action. She sat down
and prayerfully thought of what she
could do to augment her husband’s income. Having the knowledge of making
confectioneries, she brushed up her and started selling snacks in fronts her of house. Her products were so good and tasty that she
got a contract through one of her customers to provide snacks and tea
every morning to the headquarters of a reputable bank in town. With God’s help and some financial support from Ben , she purchased a tea set, employed the services of few caters, and took her confectionery to the bank. The contracts turns
out to be a huge success as her
business developed into a
big fast-food restaurant with branches
in many places. Through the work was tedious, she kept at it
until the tension at home eased. Now,
the couple is buoyant enough to provide the pressing needs of the family, as
well as support their aged parent and the
projects of their local
church. Working as the means of obtaining the
necessities of life
is a universal law [genesis
3:19]. In fact, there is a maxim in 2 Thessalonians 3:10 that ‘’if any
would not work, neither should he eat. If you don’t work , you should not be
supported or maintained
by anybody. You cannot stay idle and expect manna from heaven or
someone else to put food on your table.
God created you to work and sustain yourself.
You work to live, you live to work.
Working has a lots of benefits
aside from providing you with money to support yourself and explore your
interests. Whether paid or unpaid,
working is good for health and well being. It contributes to your happiness; helps you to build confidence and self esteem; keeps you
busy; and gives you the means to
develop yourself. It also enables you
to socialize, build contracts and find
supports; gives you sense of pride, identity and personal
achievement; as well as helps
you contribute to development that benefits
your community and society.
However,
in spite of it’s spiritual, economical,
physical and health benefits and the
facts that it’s an imperative for everyone, not
all so-called work , job or employment is good. That means you have to
be discreet in your choice of
work. Aside from the legitimacy and
decency of work you do, you should look at
productivity; that is, what you can
and must do to be
efficient and get
the best out of your
work. Lastly, ensure your work
is yielding good and
expected results, benefits and
profits. The bottom line is, you should work hard or labour with wisdom. Be purposeful, productive
and profitable in
your work.